Daryl Cook!

Getting out of the way

May 1, 2008

I was facilitating a meeting earlier this week, and during some reflection time near the closing one of the participants kindly said … “Oh, and I’d like to thank the facilitator who has largely managed to stay out of the way.” “Yes, fantastic!” I thought, “I’ve done my job!”

Now this might seem a little counter-intuitive, after all I was being paid to facilitate the group, what was I thinking by staying out of the way? I was doing this: creating space and letting them get on with it.

the ultimate facilitator will do nothing and remain totally invisible — Harrison Owen

[ 1 comment ] [ facilitation ]

  1. Nick Bernard
    May 6th, 2008 at 7:10 am

    Daryl, I totally agree. As a part time facilitator (I am used in house because I am cheap but must do an OK job because I get repeats) I find myself consciously having to stay out of the way even though I can also contribute as a technical expert. But it is about making sure they can get on and achieve the desired intention of the workshop - being less visible

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